no one can force you to love God more or less. also, words cannot show how much you love God, more or less. only through our every action and decision we make in life that show if we want God more or lesser in our lives. if at a young age we cannot make a decision for Jesus, the probability of doing it as we get older is almost zero. or rather, zero. if in small area of our lives we cannot put God first, don’t talk about putting God first in marriage and work.